The Law Of Deliberate Creation

Hello dear friends, welcome to yet another blog.

By reading today’s topic you all must be wondering is there a new law in the making?

After studying all those Newton’s laws and all other laws do we have to learn one more?

So my friends please relax and do not worry about this law.

This is not any scientific law that we need to learn but which cannot be used in our day to day life.

The Law of Deliberate Creation is very simple and we all should use it in our day to day life.

                You all know that whatever I have been learning through my entrepreneurial journey, I share it with you all.

And I have a lot of gratitude to my mentor who has an ocean of knowledge and he is sharing it all with me all the time without any hesitation.

As they say, Knowledge increases when you share it.

So this concept is also been taught to me by my mentor. 

                As I had written a blog about how I attracted my first foreign trip and the business in my life unknowingly. 

(Here is the link to the blog: https://bloggersnehha09.blogspot.com/2022/02/how-i-manifested-my-first-foreign-trip.html)

Have you all noticed that we all have attracted things in our life the same way as I did?

We all would innocently have thought of something that we wanted and once when we attracted that in our lives we realized that it is a Law Of Attraction.

As for me, it was a business and my foreign trip before I came to know that thought becomes things and this phenomenon is called as Law Of Attraction.

Likewise, for you all, it might be your dream job, your life partner of your dreams, your dream car, dream house etc.

So hence it is clear that what we think we get.

But have you ever realized that we also get negative thoughts?

Every positive thought is followed by a negative thought which is like: “What If….”

 

Like if we have a positive thought about scoring first class in our exams and getting placed in our dream company, what if that does not happen.

Whenever we try to take new decisions in life, we are very happy about it but at the same time we are scared What If things do not work the way we think?

I am sure you all can relate to what I am saying.

So as I said earlier, the Law of attraction works, but it works in both cases.

It is said that the universe or the higher energy or God whatever you name it, does not differentiate between positive and negative thoughts.

It just grants the wish coming out of your thoughts.

Hence, many people say the Law Of Attraction does not work.

Because what they wished, they did not get.

But they fail to realize that while having a positive thought, he was also having a “What If… “ thought.

And maybe the intensity of the What if thought or the negative thought was so strong that it overpowered the positive one and hence they could not attract what they asking for.

                This has happened to me too.

I had also not attracted what I wished.

And as you all know, if I am stuck in any problem, I go to my angel and things get sorted within no time.

Yes, you all guessed it correct.

I spoke with my mentor about it.

I was so sure that my mentor will have an answer to it and that he will make me understand things simplistically.

He did the same.

                This time he said: follow the “ Law of Deliberate Creation”.

I asked him: “ Oh so do you mean I should not follow the Law Of Attraction, and rather follow Law Of Deliberate Creator”.

To this he said, I never said you should stop following the Law of Attraction.

Now I asked him to explain to me what exactly do I need to do.

First of all, I did not understand what the Law of Deliberate Creation means.

To this, my mentor started explaining to me word by word like we do for kids.

He said As you know that what we think we get in life, that means we are the creator of our own life.

As I had also mentioned in my blog that “ Life does not happen to us, we create it by our thoughts”.

I said, "That’s right, I have learned it from you”.

Mentor: “ Deliberate creator means you purposely create what you want”.

It is natural to have positive and negative thoughts.

We humans carry the baggage of the past.

If ever we have come across any mishap, we always are scared of it. And keep thinking that it should never happen again. Or “What if” it happens with me again

But while all of this, we are sending negative thoughts to the universe.

At times we also carry the baggage of someone else’s a bad experience, and keep thinking that “What If” this happens to me.

For an instance, If someone has a broken marriage, we think that what if this happens to me too. And we the are scared of getting married, no matter we have dreamed of having a dreamy wedding and getting a dream life partner.

Or maybe if someone fails, in any business, we keep thinking what if I fail too.

This is negative Anticipation.

Meaning, we are constantly living in a state of expecting negative things to happen.

And hence Law of Attraction works negatively. But it does Work.

So never carry the baggage of your past bad experience, or even someone else’s bad experience.

Rather always live in a Positive Anticipation.

Always live in a state of expecting positive things to happen.

This state is called as being in “HIGHLIGHTS” mode.

Like always anticipate that you have already received what you are asking for.

Since then, I have been staying in a HIGHLIGHTS mode, having positive anticipation.

Yes I have started creating my dream life and achieving all goals.

So my friends, you all too take a decision completely on your own and believe in yourself. And create your own life with the Law of Deliberate Creation. And enjoy your life to the fullest.

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Is it good to be a foodie?

Hello my dear friends, let’s discuss one more amazing learnings that I got in my entrepreneurial journey.

So today's topic is quite interesting.

As you all know that I have been sharing the learnings that I keep getting from my mentor.

He not only teaches me about business but also a lot about how to live, what kinds of lifestyle I should have, what kind of thought process should I carry and what kind of identity should I make.

           One beautiful evening when I was just chit-chatting with my mentor, sharing about my routine and my likes and dislikes, he was sharing about his too.

We found a lot of common things between us which made me feel that these are the reasons why I could relate to him and our wavelength matches so well.

Of course there were a lot of differences too. But that is how it should be right?.

Now you all must be wondering why were we discussing so much about being compatible.

We are just business partners .

But my mentor always says choosing a business partner is as important as choosing a life partner.

The word partner is associated with a very few relationships in life.

One is a partner for life and another is partner for business.

 Which means a person who is a part of you in your life.

One wrong decision in choosing a partner in either of the relationships, and your life is on stake.

Hence it is very important to check the compatibility while choosing a business partner as well first, business will happen later.

So while we were discussing all of these, I happen to say “I am a big time foodie”.

My mentor raised his eyebrows and gave me a confused look.

I thought that he might have not heard me so I repeated my sentence that : 

"I am a big time foodie”.

My mentor asked me, "Is that your identity?”.

I said, “ No that is one of my likes”.

To this my mentor corrected me and said, "Anything following I Am becomes your identity”.

Like "I am a doctor, I am an actor, I am an Athleate ,I am an Entrepreneur" etc.

So if you say that I am a Foodie that means that is your identity.

Have you ever seen any of the successful person saying this?.

As I keep reading and watching about successful people, try to learn from them, I never heard anyone saying it. Hence I nodded by head as "No"

My mentor said, “Food is just to nourish ourselves”

We should rather have a good and healthy diet, which will nourish ourselves, keep us healthy and make us successful too.

Eating right is an important aspect in our success.

 One must know what to eat, when to eat and most important how much to eat.

And that is the reason why all the successful people have a dietician to guide them.

But we often make a mistake by eating anything and everything that we like and calling ourselves a foodie.

We do not have to get indulge in food, which means that we eat for pleasure.

And when something is done for pleasure, we over do it.

 But eat to nourish ourselves.

And that’s when I realized that I do not want to indulge in food and make my identity as a foodie.

Rather I should say that "I am fit and healthy".

 

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How I Manifested My first Foreign Trip

Hello, my dear friends!! Welcome to yet another blog.

As you all know I keep sharing my experiences and learnings of my life through "Snehha Ke Vichar".

Today I want to share about one of the best experiences in my life which I will cherish all my life.

I keep sharing about my entrepreneur journey which started a  few years ago.

But today I want to take you to my memory lane of how I started with entrepreneurship.

As you all know that I was working with MNC before.

When I was an employee, I would get a thought of freedom.

Freedom of time and work too.

I always wished that I would want to choose my work, my targets, my timings and my place of work.

This is one of the thoughts most frequent thoughts that I would always get.

And another one was like every MNC employee gets, that was travelling abroad.

Whenever asked about my favourite destination, I would say only one dialogue.

“My first trip is gonna be Dubai”

If asked me "Why Dubai?”

I would simply say I don’t know but that place attracts me.

And this was my vague reply.

These were the two most frequent thoughts I had back then.

I was so naive that I did not know thoughts become reality.

And to my surprise, one fine day I got an opportunity to start my own business.

That means getting an opportunity to be my own boss.

"How fascinating was that. Wasn't it?"

I was on cloud 9. I felt does that mean I can choose my own work, set my own targets, work according to my timings and choose my workplace?

My mentor said, “ Yes this is all going to be as per your wish”.

“I being an employee thought isn’t it too good to believe?”.

“Is it a scam?”.

I mean how Is it possible that I get all of what I ask for.

I said to my mentor, “ I am sure this is something fishy. This cannot be true”.

 My mentor calmly said, “This is the problem with employees, they always think that things that they do not know do not exist”.

“You guys feel there is only one way of earning money and that is by doing a job, working under someone, getting bossing over by somebody”.

I felt a little disheartened but deep inside I knew that it is actually true.

I said to myself that "I am so surrounded by the corporate world and its politics that I find it difficult to trust someone even if that person is genuine enough to help me fulfil my own wishes".

“This is what I always wanted. Than what is stopping me from trusting him and taking that path?”.

I got a strong intuition that this is not a scam but an angel sent by God to fulfil my wishes. Let me grab the opportunity.

And that was the best decision I have ever made in my life.

One week after I started my business, my mentor called me and said that I need to travel.

I thought maybe in some other city or so.

But when he said that I need to travel out of India, I just could not believe it.

My mentor then told me the location.

And yes you all guessed it right.

It was my dream destination- “DUBAI”.

What else would I ask for?

The next day I had my flight for DUBAI.

That was it.

Within just a span of 3 hours. I was in my dream city.

There I met my mentor.

He was already there waiting to welcome me at the Dubai International Airport.

He could see my super happy face.

He knew that I wanted to share my experience with him.

He took me to a coffee shop and let me speak finally.

I shared with him how I would think of freedom and Dubai trip, and today I am actually living that life.

My Mentor said, "Do you know what is it called”.

I nodded my head left and right saying No.

He said” This is LAW OF ATTRACTION”

Which says “What you wish you get”. (Watch a documentary- “The Secret”)

“You have been thinking of all this often. Hence you attracted it in your life.”

“Dot always gets connected backwards, not forwards” he added.

He was so right, when I looked back in life I realized that I have always been wishing for what I got in the present.

And this was how I manifested my dream career and my first foreign trip.

I read somewhere, Life does not happen to us, We create our life with our thoughts.

So my dear friends, choose your thoughts wisely, as it is going to be a reality one day.

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Whats In It For Me?

 

Hello, friends welcome to yet another blog of mine.

Today I wanted to share my experience about how I started learning new things.

As you all know that I shifted my quadrant from employee to entrepreneur a few years back.

But before that, I was a corporate self-proclaimed genius. As in I thought since I was working in an MNC I knew everything about everything.

But in a real sense I barely had any knowledge about different quadrants; the business quadrant.

When I got into it I had a reality check that I am a nobody and there is yet a lot that I need to learn.

That was my paradigm shift.

I went to my mentor and humbly said “I will follow as you say I want to learn everything about the business world”.

Mentor:  “I would be happy to teach you but before learning there is one important step that you need to take and without which you will not be able to learn anything”.

 I was quite confused. I wondered what is it that needs to be done. Just a decision is enough

But my mentor said, “ I want you to unlearn what you know and what you think you know”.

Before learning Unlearning is important.

"The slate has to be clean so I can write something on it”.

I realized it and then kept all my corporate knowledge aside and started to learn fresh.

My mentor started teaching me about business in the practical world.

I too was enjoying learning from his experience, his work, his thoughts, his decisions etc.

Later he recommended me some business books.

But with those books, he also gave me very important learning which I want to share with you.

      WIIFM:

What’s In It For Me?

Before starting to read any book I should always check What’s In It For Me. As in what will I learn from it.

Whenever I get a chance to learn anything from a book or any seminar, first I should check WIIFM.

 

Later my mentor also asked me to remember these lines:

 

What I hear, I forget

What I See or Read I remember

What I Do I Understand

Whatever  knowledge that I seek theoretically, there are high chances that I will forget

The knowledge that I get through seeing and reading is what I will remember.

All the knowledge that I take, I need to implement it to understand how it works.

And once I implement it I will learn it for life.

 

Doing = Learning

So my friends before reading books check the WIIFM. 

And after Learning starting Doing.

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Are you getting paid based on Time or based on Performance?

 

Hello folks, here I am with yet another blog.

Today I wanted to talk about an incident that happened to me a couple of days back.

I happen to meet one of my old friends after ages.

I asked him, how about him, his family and his work.

To which he said, "everything is good but I am not able to give time to my family".

It is because of the hectic schedule and long working hours."

I said: "But you must also be getting paid a lot right"

To this, he gave an emotional expression and said: "You know Snehha I am not getting paid for what I am worth."

I answered jokingly: "In whose opinion?"

"I am sure your boss thinks you are being compensated fairly or maybe more than your worth".

He said: "Yes you also make fun of my situation. You entrepreneurs will never understand our problem".

I said: "Do you want me to understand your problem or its high time for you to introspect and take a risk".

To this, my friend said “ You entrepreneurs always talk about some risk. Why cannot you think of a steady income? A settled life. Having a steady cash flow?"

I simply said:  “Because we do not want someone else to decide our worth.”

We believe that our efforts should be justified well.

We either work on percentage, commission or profits.

This gives us freedom of work and also the feeling of being our own boss.

The more money I want the more I perform.

So my question to you is are you getting paid based on the time that you put in or based on your performance? I asked

He said: “I have to complete my working hours daily come what may.”

I said: “That means your daily wages are based on the time”

So if the input is limited the output has to be limited.

One can put in only a certain amount of time a day.

 But do you agree that to receive more we need to first put in more?

To ask for the output, there should be input first.

This is the rule of nature.

Now if the input is limited, how will the output be?

Yes, it will be limited too.

So, to get the maximum output, there should be maximum input.

Everyone has only 24 hours, so even if you are willing to put in more input that can never be possible.

However, if you really want to get maximum output put in maximum input.

And how can that be done?

This can be done by simply working on getting paid based on performance.

The more you perform, the more you get paid.

Now if say you are a new bee, working on commission or percentage-based income, maybe you will generate a few bucks initially as you are in a learning phase.

But as you know the more efficiently you perform the more you will get paid.

So you can only think of becoming better and better at it.

And once you are an expert, you will take no time to generate the results.

Here your income is completely based on your performance.

Maybe initially you would’ve taken 10 hours to produce a result. But now it would simply take you less than an hour.

So my dear friends either get paid based on performance or work for yourself.

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